Relationships Or "Hooking up"

Hey guys. So I am back and this time I have decided to write about relationships or the misconception of them and how today's generation has become accustomed to calling it "hooking up". 

First off, I'd like to share with you guys my opinion regarding relationships. I feel like relationships should not just be a thing people get into if they are not planning on being with that particular partner for the long run. I personally feel like people should be in relationships to get married to their partners and it shouldn't be about passing time. I get that there are people out there that get into relationships because they cannot stand to be alone or they are "bored" (as some might say), or whatever illogical reason they might have, but that is just how I see it.  

Being in a relationship, is a very serious thing, mainly because not only are you investing all your time in knowing the person you are with, but you also start to become like them. You start doing things the way they do, because it is what you see all the time. You start chewing your food like them, you start getting the same attitude towards certain things etc. You basically become ONE. 

I also want to share with you guys how my relationships have gone. Okay before that I must say I am single and proud (I have pizza beside me, so I am good). I have been in a few relationships but they have not worked out because it is either the fact that I cannot entirely open myself up for them to "really know me and understand where I am coming from" or it is them and not being "ready to fully commit". You guys may wonder why I did not entirely open myself up for them, well it's because I could never fully trust people and this has been something that affected me, my whole life. Reason why I had trust issues is, because my dad walked out of my life when I was still young and ever since then I thought maybe I was not good enough for him because he left my mom and I for another family where he could get a lot of sons. 

Lol enough about my sad past. Anyway, I am working on my trust issues (Yay me!), but that is besides the point. 

I would like to be in a relationship but obviously not now because I am working on myself and trying to figure things out as an adult now. 

Now to talk about hooking up. Honestly, I have hooked up before and it is such a waste of time and it is tiring (whew!). I am saying this because you have to control your feelings and you just have to think "No I cannot be like this, they will catch feelings" (yawn). Stuff like that make it so tiring and not worth your while. I have stopped though! So no more hook-ups, unless you are Zac Efron...

Anyway, relationships are cool but if you are really serious about that person and you see a future with them! Hook-ups are a NO NO! Do not play with people's feelings like that, it is sad and tiring and definitely not worth your while! 

Thank you for reading guys! 
Do not be afraid to comment, even if it's anonymous... Even if you are just here to talk about how you burped, that is cool. It is a comment after all. 

Cheerio!!! :)